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So this particular day Arsenal was playing against some other team I cant clearly remember in a game that was kicking off exactly 7.45PM. So I decided to check in one of the most popular joint in town to watch my game and then later return to my crib a lonely man.
While enjoying my favorite drink as am watching the game two men almost my age walked towards my table accompanied with some hot white chick who fairly looked like my girl type and they asked if they could join me and hell yeah I said yes because after all I was meant to leave in hours time or so.
As I was busy screaming and shouting to my winning Team this white mama was staring at me full of smiles and I pretend like they were not meant for me as I was sure one of the guys could be the lucky guy enjoying the cookie.
The game finally came to an end with Arsenal winning 3:1, I had to take my last sip before I called it off. I was standing she politely asked me if I was leaving with a smile on her face, for a minute I hesitated replying back but quickly I said No. I want to have dinner down stairs then I will be back in a while.
By this time I was smelling some Flesh, so I quickly went down stairs grabbed a meal while on my way back up stair I found her perfectly standing where she was very sure I will pass by her so I knew what she was exactly waiting for.
Hey.. Whats your name? was my question. "Camila" she replied. Any of one of those guys your boyfriend? I quickly asked "No" she replied. "Those are my new neighbors in my new neighborhood" she further said. So where do you come from and for how long have you been in town? I asked. "From California, been around for two weeks now." she replied I am also new in town I guess three days now. was my answer.
Well it turned out to be we were all Newbies in town and guess what? The next morning she was waking up from my Bed.
To cut the long story short. Here are 7 Smooth On How To Pick Up a Girl in a Bar And Have Her Sleeping In Your Bed!
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#1 Be in great shape, have great posture. First impressions count, and if you look good, women will notice. Being lean and muscular makes you easy on the eyes, thus upping the odds of making more women become interested in you, while having great posture displays confidence and gives you an aura that makes you stand out.
#2 Dress well. The second part of looking good is to dress well. When I say well, I don’t just mean dress smart. Also dress with a unique style that makes you stand out. Perhaps you can wear interesting jewelry or bright colors. Maybe you can wear a suit when most people are in jeans and a blazer. You might even wear that obscure band shirt in the hopes that a lady of similar musical inclinations will approach you.
#3 Be comfortable in your surroundings. Whether that is chatting with your friend, or wandering around the club on your own. Do what you enjoy and what makes you feel comfortable. Don’t feel like you have an obligation to be in your friends’ pocket all of the time. If they want to dance and you don’t want to, do your own thing for a while.
#4 Understand women’s signals. Women will glance at you repeatedly, hold eye contact, brush past you when there is space to not do so, and just hang around in close proximity to you. They might come and stand right next to you at the bar to order a drink, even if there is plenty of space further along the bar. If all these happens then that girl is into you so just make that first move ASAP.
#5 Hold eye contact. This is the easiest way to let a girl know that you are interested in her without even having to speak to her. If she holds eye contact back, smiles, or looks away and giggles, and then quickly looks back, she probably likes you.
#5 Don’t fear rejection. It happens. It doesn’t do you any harm. You don’t know her, and she doesn’t know you. She is probably drunk, and you will never see her again. If you are effected by her rejection, you probably need to work on building your self-esteem before focusing on meeting women.
#6 Manage your mood. You have to really manage your mood and ensure that you keep a positive frame of mind. If you’re not having a good time, I guarantee that nobody will want to talk to you. Don’t be scared to just take some time out, go chill with your friends, or even go outside for some air and quiet time.
#7 When the opportunity arises, take it. If she is talking to you for more than 2 minutes, smiling, laughing, or touching you in any way, she likes you. Take things to the next level. Tease her, touch her back, and be confident. Take her to get a drink, to sit down, or to dance if you want to break the tension. It can be difficult to go from standing two feet apart while chatting to trying to make out, so change your location to give you the excuse to change your position relative to each other.
The same goes if you want to take her home. You need to be confident and lead her where you want her to go. Take her by the hand and say “let’s get out of here” or something similar. She will tell you if she is not comfortable with it, but if she follows your lead, it is a green light – full speed ahead!
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