I often get questions about whether or not guys enjoy foreplay.The truth is this: they really enjoy it! If you do foreplay right, then you are both going to enjoy love making a whole lot more.
1. How you look.
Remember, guys are visual by nature. They get turned on by what they see. So, taking care of how you look is a high priority if you want to turn your man on and arouse him. Think of this as a ‘pre’ foreplay tip to use before you even begin touching him.2. Talk dirty.
Talking dirty is another one of my pre-foreplay tips to use on your man throughout the day, before you are both alone together, as well as during foreplay itself. This is to build the sexual tension and have your man salivating for you. Many people believe that talking dirty involves you using various expletives and bad language on your partner. They believe that the crazier they sound, the better. This, thankfully, isn’t true. It’s much easier than that!3. Learn how to be a good kisser.
Too
many people think that kissing is a boring foreplay technique. It’s not
boring at all. The key is taking the
initiative. In other words, you need to kiss your man first before he
gets a chance to kiss you.
One thing you can do to make this foreplay tip hotter is by getting a little more aggressive:Try squeezing one of his lips between your lips.
Gently bite one of his lips between your teeth (Remember: be gentle!)
Use your hand to move his head to one side or the other so that you can change where you kiss him.
Switch from kissing him on the lips to sucking his ear lobe to kissing him on the neck.
Don’t forget to kiss the rest of his body!
4. Learn how to use your hands.
While kissing your man, you can incorporate another foreplay tip, which is touching and massaging your man with your hands.Alternate how passionately you touch him. At first touch him and caress him very softly, then later grab him and hold him tight. You may even want to try using your nails sometimes!
Try dragging your fingertips over his arm as lightly as possible. It tickles, but feels incredible.
Your man’s inner thighs, cheeks, ears, neck and the back of his head are most sensitive…speaking of which.
5. Massage his scalp.
Massaging your man’s scalp is one of those forgotten foreplay tips that feels wonderful for your man (and when your man does it to you, too!). You can do it while you are just sitting down beside each other, when you are lying in bed, when you are kissing each other or even while making love, too. But don’t just scrape his head with your nails! To massage his scalp, start from the bottom near the back of his neck or just above his ear.Keeping your hand loose, start to slowly push your fingers through his hair up towards the top of his head. When you reach the top of his head, curl your fingers slightly and gently bring them down in the opposite direction, lightly scratching his head.
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