A single mistake in bed from a man can cost an entire relationship. Women go to bed with men with a lot of expectations. When you fail to meet what they expect from you, you risk losing them to a much better option. If they choose to stay, they will do so with a divided mind.
While pleasing a woman in general in bed is an uphill task, a real man should strive to achieve at least 75% of what every woman wants to feel while they are at it.
Good sex is one of the many things that will ensure your woman is hooked to you. And a genius in bed needs to learn a lot to master the art.
It is possible that you cannot learn everything at a go and put it into practice. But at least a man should know what a woman does not want to experience in bed.
Here are some don’ts that men should learn and master:
1. Manhandling Them
Is this where the phrase men are beasts originated from? Some men are fail terribly when it comes to matters romance. They mishandle their women to an extent that they feel like they are toys being played around with. The most manhandling parts of a woman are the breasts and the derriere. Instead, a smooth touching and caressing will greatly make your woman feel you abundantly.
2. Getting Into The Act Straight Away
Some men walk straight downtown immediately they get into bed with their women. Women hate this. Walking straight south without considering what your woman feels or wants first is suicidal. Do not ignore her lips. Do not deny her the soft, erotic caressing she craves. Give it in abundance and gently. This prepares her to receive you down there when you finally arrive.
3. Making Them Take Weird Positions
This is common among men who watch movies and create weird fantasies out of them. Some men subject their women to weird and stupid positions that make them lose their appetite. Men please, let your women what makes them comfortable. You are not in a boxing ring or a battle field where you want to overcome your opponent by all means possible.
4. Thrusting Hard and Rapidly
Some men think they are drilling boreholes when it comes to matters sex and love making. They drill so hard forgetting that they are in an act that needs pleasure. Men, do not be too mechanical. Stop pumping hard like you are digging for gold. Women want it gentle, cool and careful.
5. ‘Coming’ Too Soon
This a big problem with so many men out there. Their tubes start dripping the moment a woman touches them. To be honest, women don’t like this. And to be realistic, they want you to drip while you are in there. So hold on. Be patient. Lest you lose her completely.
6. Not ‘Coming’ At All
While most men have the quick drip problem, some wish they suffered from the same. These are those men who disappoint their women by not dripping at all. It is one thing a woman enjoys in bed. Denying it to her leaves her with a lot of questions, one of them being whether you are suffering from some condition.
7. Suffocating Them
Some weird men throw all their weight on their women, hold them so tight that they leave them with little room for breathing. Do not suffocate your woman. Remember she is carrying all your weight. And she is using a lot of energy to support you and your shenanigans up there. She also needs pleasure.
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