While every man is different, there are certain things about a woman that will make any man stand up, take notice, and make him decide he wants to get to know her on a deeper level.
Contrary to what many might think, most men are not looking for supermodels. They are just looking for their perfect match: a woman who is down-to-earth, sweet and sensitive to their needs.
And here we are talking about real men –those who are mature and grounded on physical, mental, emotional and spiritual levels.
Here are ten attractive traits that every man keeps in mind when deciding if the woman sitting across the dinner table at that first date is girlfriend material.
7. Confidence
Men want women who are confident enough. Women who believe in themselves and can face situations boldly. Men also want women who are comfortable and contented with the way they look. A woman who keeps inquiring how she looks, for instance, in her skin, is likely to lose a man because of this.
6. Playfulness
Nothing excites a man like a woman who is playful and is ready to spend some time playing some games, teasing each other and sharing a hearty laughter and smiles. Biting remarks and snappy comebacks are just the witty repartee to keep the spark between you in your relationship, says Fox News. Laughter is the most important thing in a relationship. Men fear dull women.
5. Independence
Contrary to the notion that men always prefer vulnerable women, a real man wants a woman who is independent and has her own principals. Lots of women mistakenly believe that men are looking for a “weaker” woman who will make them feel like they are smarter and more powerful. Men want a woman who has her own purpose other than just being in a relationship.
4. Intelligence
Again, the notion that many men fear intelligent women is far-fetched and misplaced. A real man wants to be with an intelligent woman, a woman who can find solutions to difficult situations and help solve issues amicably. This woman will always make a man feel great. A man wants a woman who can stand as his equal. So be the smart, savvy woman you are. To him, it’s a total turn-on.
3. Emotional Maturity
Are you this woman who always gets emotional on very petty things that can be solved out without raising eyebrows? Well, you may end up landing in the arms of a joker. A real man wants a woman who is emotionally mature and can handle situations without escalating things. A woman who has the maturity to not blame or criticize a man for what she’s feeling, but to share her feelings in an honest and authentic way that helps a man better understand her will be attractive to a man.
2. Sensual and Sexy
Ladies, do not lose your sense and touch of sexiness and confidence. Embrace your femininity. Ditch the sweatpants for date night and take the extra ten minutes to pull the LBD from the back of your closet. You shouldn’t feel pressured to strut around the bedroom in lingerie and high heels. Be comfortable in your own sexuality.
1. Honesty
Honesty encompasses everything. Be honest in your dealings. Be honest on the number of men who have crossed your way. Be honest on what you like and dislike. Stop being flirty. A little lie will break an otherwise great relationship between the two of you. Please be honest.
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